11句名人金玉良言拯救单身汉

双11又来了，你的购物车里装了几件货品了?玩了几个小游戏，抢到了几个整点红包?是给老妈添件羽绒服，还是给爸爸添双保暖鞋，还是给男票抢件保暖衣，又或者是给娃添些玩具，还是仅仅是为了凑个热闹……不管是哪种都好，反正你买或者不买，双11都在那里。

那曾经是一票单身汪最害怕听到的节日，最不愿到来的日子，最希望下班早早回家，不要去饭店，不要去商场，更是千万不要去电影院，因为不愿意看见到处秀恩爱的情侣档。

　　现在的你呢?估计眼睛半刻离不开屏幕，手上飞快地点着鼠标往购物车里添加儿童玩具、纸尿裤、宝宝洗浴用品呢吧;或者是正在给老婆/老公往购物车里装换季衣物、护肤品或者油盐米面;又或者你正在和男票/女票谈论要放弃哪件商品、添加哪件商品，然后看着提交订单处的阿拉伯数字，用力地点下按钮，完成结算，心里又滴着血了，下个月发工资前又要吃泡面为生了~~

　　黄金单身汉生活的你，也很快就会进入出双入对的行列，然后晋级超级奶爸，棒棒哒~~

　　不过这之前，送上11句名人的金玉良言也许能治你近期的各种不服。

　　My alone feels so good,I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter thanmy solitude. - Warsan Shire

　　我一个人感觉很不错，只有你的陪伴比我的独处更甜蜜，我才会需要你。——沃森·赛尔

　　Too many women throwthemselves into romance because they’reafraid of being single, then start making compromises and losingtheir identity. I won’tdo that. - Julie Delpy

　　很多女人因为害怕单身而逼自己恋爱，然后就开始妥协，失去个性。我是不会那样做的。——朱丽·德尔比

　　Beingsingle used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it meansyou’repretty sexy and you’retaking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who youwant to spend it with. - Sex and the City

　　以前，单身说明你没人要。现在，单身说明你很性感，说明你正从容不迫地挑选自己想要的生活方式，挑选你想要与之一起生活的人。——《欲望都市》

　　Being single is getting overthe illusion that there is somebody out there to complete you andtaking charge of your own life. - Omkar Phatakc

　　不要幻想你的真命天子会来填补你的空缺、接管你的生活。真正的单身需要克服这种错觉。——奥姆卡尔·帕塔科

　　If you have to ask someone tochange, to tell you they love you, to bring wine to dinner, to callyou when they land, you can’tafford to be with them. - Sloane Crosley

　　如果一个人要在你的要求下才会改变、才会说爱你、才会在吃晚饭时带酒、才会在飞机降落后给你打电话，那你们之间的关系是你无法承受的。——斯劳恩·克罗斯利

　　When I get lonely these days,I think: So BE lonely, Liz. Learn your way around loneliness. Makea map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to thehuman experience. But never again use anotherperson’sbody or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilledyearnings. - Elizabeth Gilbert

　　这些天以来，我孤独的时候会想：孤独就孤独吧，利兹。欢迎前来体验人生。不要再用别人的身体或感情来填补自己内心的空虚了。——伊利莎白·吉尔伯特

　　How wrong it is for awoman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather thanto create it herself. - Anais Nin

　　一个女人期望着男人给她建造她理想中的世界，而不是自己亲手创造，这真是大错特错。——阿娜伊斯·宁

　　It isgood to be lonely, for being alone is not easy. The fact thatsomething is difficult must be one more reason to do it. -Rilke

　　孤独是好事，因为孤身一人并不容易。一件事很困难也是去做这件事的理由。——里尔克

　　Icelebrate myself, and sing myself. - Walt Whitman

　　我为自己欢庆，为自己歌唱。——沃尔特·惠特曼

　　Workinglong hours being single helps because your time is yours. Once youhave a family your time isn’tall yours anymore. Most of the Mac team, we were in ourmid-20’s,most of us were single, and we were able to essentially devote ourlives to it. - Andy Hertzfeld

　　争取长时间单身是很好的，因为单身时你的时间就是属于你的。一旦你成家了，你的时间就不再全部属于你了。我们大部分苹果电脑产品团队的成员都是25岁上下，大部分都是单身，所以我们可以全身心地投入工作。——安迪·赫兹菲尔德

　　I lovebeing single. I can come and go as I please and stay out as late asI want to. - Eric Dickerson

　　我喜欢单身。我想来就来想走就走，想多晚回家就多晚回家。——埃里克·迪克森